where is my dsm?

This happens because the DSM cannot be opened by any software. Here you can find more information about this topic:

How to visualize the GeoTIFF DSM File

Here is a related community post: DSM output all white

The solution is to open it in Pix4Dmapper (Using the Mosaic Editor) or a GIS software such as Global Mapper, ArcGIS, QGIS, etc